Evolution

Not every destructive things are bad, sometimes it can be a good things, too. Like the meteorites that might destroy certain place and leave some craters. But you know? that craters would form a beautiful lakes later, isn't that amazing? A beautiful scenery often created by the chaos.

This applies to human's relationship too. Sometimes, you got into argument and fight with your partner, but in the end, you will be able to understand more about your partner after the storm calmed. You’d better try to figure what your partner needs. This would lead you to a better relationship, right? But if the impact is too strong, we can't guarantee a good result. Like an asteroid that hits the earth millions year ago, it wiped all dinosaurs to extinction, if you know what i mean, lol.